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July 10, 2008

Bitter or Pathetic?

These two are choices when someone is falling in love or already in love. it’s either they become bitter of a relationship or patethic just to have a relationship. OR it’s just me. 😦

There are certain times whenever i am in a circumstance of people in love or on the act of falling in love even my dearest friends, i feel bitter. Disagreeing with their moments of love and instead say that they will fall apart soon and what they share will never last.  I would even suggest that, whenever the other party is not making their presence known, they are with somebody else. Whenever i see a couple looking good together, i say to myself that they are sweet for not but not in the long run. I dunno why am i so bitter at times? maybe because i haven’t had my share of a love that lasted for quite some time? I lost faith in love, that it conquers all? Or simply because i am jealous, that i am single? hmmm.

On the part of being pathetic, sometimes people in love would risk almost everything they had to keep their lovers on their side. So patethic that they (I) will focus their efforts and time on them to build their own world even if they sense their love is about to give up and is taken by somebody else. More pathetic by attributing every event to their partner and make these events as omens of their relationship.

 The only thing that is same for being bitter or pathetic is that you end up losing. Losing a chance to have the best possible future and love. Or losing your loving self and end up not having someone to be your partner, your loved one.



  1. wow, you’re a realist, aren’t you? haha. 🙂 well yeah, in some ways i agree with you. immature love can amout to bitterness & being pathetic. that’s how most kids get when they’re in a horrible relationship but think they’re in love…they think that love is sacrificing a good life to be with someone that you can’t stand. LOL. isn’t that weird? well, that’s not it. then again, i can’t really agree with you in some things. love isn’t always like that….maybe you havent seen all the sides of a real relationship. there is 5% of hardship and the rest 95% is pure happiness. at least, that’s how i feel. i’m in a long term relationship. as humans, i think we tend to overpower the negative in things and overlook the positive. 🙂 try not to! not everything good has to be for a short time. it depends on who’s handling the situation & how they handle it. anyway, i’m sorry you feel that way. =] if i can ever help, tell me 😀

    Comment by misscheesecakeandstuff — July 10, 2008 @ 10:57 am | Reply

  2. @misscheescakeandstuff. These are just thoughts that came in my mind as i bum around, you maybe right that i am just too young for now. But finding true love at a young age and enjoy it for the rest of your life is better than finding it too late. Well, love is defined on several grounds and i personally think there are not enough words to define it but rather actions 🙂 thanks for the dropby 🙂

    Comment by khentutz — July 10, 2008 @ 11:03 am | Reply

  3. …and i agree! 🙂 i was implying that you’re too young…only that that’s what young people make love look like 😀 you’re more than welcome.

    Comment by misscheesecakeandstuff — July 10, 2008 @ 11:14 am | Reply

  4. oops! i just reread my comment cause im a loser like that..haha, i meant I WASN’T implying that you’re too young! sorry!

    Comment by misscheesecakeandstuff — July 10, 2008 @ 11:15 am | Reply

  5. no worries:) no offense taken. 🙂 maybe you are right or wrong. 🙂

    Comment by khentutz — July 10, 2008 @ 11:17 am | Reply

  6. I consider myself pragmatic when it comes to love, but when someone close to me is in love, I just support them. Who knows, they might live my ideal that’s been slipping out of my hands from time immemorial.

    Comment by Joms — July 10, 2008 @ 11:28 am | Reply

  7. awww… @joms thanks for the visit :-*

    Comment by khentutz — July 10, 2008 @ 11:30 am | Reply

  8. somehow, this is the same dilemna qith regard to my post. but after reading your post, i do now confirm that i’d rather take the risk than to live my life asking myself with “what ifs”.


    Comment by wanderer — July 10, 2008 @ 3:41 pm | Reply

  9. being in love is uppose to be a good feeling but… its not pathethic and we shouldnt be bitter… yun lang, have nothin to say kasi, nakisabat lang


    Comment by mink — July 10, 2008 @ 4:25 pm | Reply

  10. @wanderer. big risks great rewards, however, be cautious as well as big risks may also mean big losses. balitaan mo ako sa mangyayari ha.

    @mink. Love in itself is positive. Reality wise, it’s not.

    Comment by khentutz — July 11, 2008 @ 1:38 am | Reply

  11. bitter! bitter! bitter! Hahahaha!

    Comment by boylet — July 11, 2008 @ 2:40 am | Reply

  12. @boylet. anu na hanggang ganyan ka lang pala coldman. Take some action…

    Comment by khentutz — July 11, 2008 @ 2:43 am | Reply

  13. Anger phase yan. It will pass soon.

    Comment by Geno — July 11, 2008 @ 9:20 am | Reply

  14. @geno naisip ko lang yan bigla. actually, i am talking to someone ngaun. naisulat ko lang yan kce bigla ko lang naisip.

    Comment by khentutz — July 11, 2008 @ 9:22 am | Reply

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