In the past few days, most people around me started to spill out some disgust on their present love affairs. On how their partner took them for granted, how they felt they deserved more and sorts. As they continued to relay their stories, i had only one questions for them, “Who said loving is easy?” then there was silence. None of us uttered a single word. I, myself was strucked by the words that came out of me.
I had several mood swings yesterday because i hoped that everything would be well and according to my standards but in reality there is no perfect scenarios and situations, one must be adaptive and be a quick thinker to obtain optimum results. I had mood swings because i wanted things the easy way with less effort or no effort at all. this can’t be at all times.
I felt okay when i realized, men are born to be hedonistic. They do things for pleasure, if doing things the easy way gives them pleasure then why burden themselves with the hardship if a certain result could be achieved in a less strenuous way.
Is falling and keeping in love easy? I guess not. The love wouldn’t be strong if it has not been tested or pushed to its limits. One must endure and think of remedies to keep the commitment of love. Break ups and separation happens when one partner gets very weary and fails to keep up with the hardships. Most successful relationships i have heard of, passed through marvelous stories that proved what a true love is.
There maybe times when loving is easy but there are also times it will be a pain in the ass and heart. But it is a part of it, even in growing up and maturity. It can’t be always a short cut or giveway nor a labyrinth.
I cheered up the conversation with my friends by saying, buti nga kayo meron kayo special person in your life who is willing to do the risks as well just to make it work out. Isipin nyo na lang yung iba, kelan pa sila magmamature or learn about life?
